Something it's taken me years to get into my head is that no matter how I act God isn't going to stand there and be surprised by my actions or be disappointed I acted a certain way. He isn't going to mumble under his breath...
Clergy, the kind I hold close to my heart, are much like Jesus in this fact. They are open-hearted, loving and forgiving as Jesus forgave them, showing grace. This is the kind of people of God I like close to me. I don't expect this behavior out of anyone else.
Maybe I'm off here but I'm of the mind set we should be able to be ourselves around each other as a family of Christ.
Love,
Me